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Apr. 15th, 2026 06:41 pm
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Moontime began today morning, right as I woke up. Turns out napping is what works to relieve the cramps better than anything else. This is not good news for workplaces that don't want to give menstrual leave.

I've been reading Haroun and the Study of Mischief by Lynn Strong and it's the perfect moontime read. It's comforting and hilarious and all the characters are a delight. It's set in a fantasy world that feels close to home. My South Asian self rarely encounters such a thing. I don't often want to escape to a world that feels close to home, but here I do. So that's a novel feeling!

I bleed so heavy that I need to use pads most of the time and change around 8 times a day. I prefer period panties on my light days, but on my heavy days it has to be pads because washing a pile of period panties is exhausting. Four days of my period are heavy, so that's a lot of pads I run through. I was unhappy about the prices of organic pads and the hazardousness of the inorganic ones, but I recently found organic bamboo pads that are 400 rupees, or $4, for a pack of 40 pads 320mm long! I'm using them now and they're really nice. Comfortable, handle my flow, don't make me sweat. And they're unbleached!

It seems that there's a factory churning them out cheap and supplying it to brands (white labelling) because when I search for organic bamboo pads, they all have the same wrapper but are being sold as different brands. There are some being sold as a generic lot with no box or brand, and with the same wrapper, like this lot. I just thought that was interesting, lol. I'm going to stick to the brand I bought because they come with additional individual disposal bags that you can reseal.

TW: men

Apr. 14th, 2026 12:33 pm
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My mother made me talk to an arranged marriage match. Oh, the joys of being an Indian daughter.



Here's a snapshot of our Whatsapp conversation. Guess how badly it went 😆

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Audacious Guy: you consider yourself a humorous person?
Long-suffering Indian Daughter: my jokes are not everyone’s cup of tea
Audacious Guy: high iq jokes ah?
Long-suffering Indian Daughter: you could say that
Audacious Guy: cool
Long-suffering Indian Daughter: 😎
Audacious Guy: how do you feel normally everyday?
Audacious Guy: like privileged, entitled… ala
Audacious Guy: or better than everyone else..
Long-suffering Indian Daughter: i feel emotionally self-sufficient
Audacious Guy: why do you need a partner then

Some context: 'ala' is a filler word in Telugu. It means something like 'and so on', 'like that', 'or some such'.

Some more context: this is our first (and last! lol) conversation, so it wasn't a case of familiarity breeding rudeness. I asked him what's important to him in life, and in marriage, and then since I was the one asking these questions and he was just asking them back to me, I asked him if he had any questions for me. The 'are you humorous' question was the first one he asked, and the 'are you entitled' question was the second.
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Haven't worked on any icons yet, but I'm still intending to. I think the plan for that is going to be to do it when I'm not house-sitting so I have the better screen to do it with. Right now I'm on a 17in screen, which is fine, but it's a portable one that isn't the best for playing with something like graphics.

I will say that since I had that mindset shift about what I want to try to do every day, I'm seeing some interesting results.

1. I get a lot of stuff done on certain days, but then the next day I do less. This doesn't bother me, though, because I'm still getting a lot of life stuff done. I don't feel so guilty and awful on those second days, and that's the kind of thing I was hoping to accomplish.

2. I'm able to catch up on things like beta reading with less difficulty. Reading any fiction has been kind of hard lately, but I'm having an easier time getting to things I need to give feedback of some kind on, so that's nice.

3. My writing is...not really happening right now. Not drafting, and also not editing. I'm not sure what to make of that, but we'll see. This whole thing is still barely started, so maybe I just need to give it more time before I can start integrating words back into my life.

4. However, I did post on Bluesky asking for prompts to write microfiction off. I love doing these things every couple of months, so I'm looking forward to playing with those prompts soon.

So, I've been house-sitting for S again, which I can't recall if I've said or not on here yet, but I'm going back to my house tomorrow, then coming back here again on Monday. This is because I need to pick up some clothes, meds, and maybe a few other things while also swapping some stuff out too. Which is fine. Right now this is my life, switching between the two houses until S finally moves upstate.

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